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I know this is ridicilous, but I am not able to stop doing that.

They assume the elder is trying to control them.

My husband pretty much controlled everything in our home and when I arrived in VA I had no friends or any family connection there to turn to when things became so depressing for me that I felt trapped and lost my identity.

His father was a horrible, mean, and very abusive father and husband.

Hugs to you: January 12, 2018 - 6:07am• But this much I do know: There is absolutely NOTHING you could do that would justify rape.

In many cases, it is just that they sound that way, but this is interpreted somewhat negatively and builds up over time — making the elder come across as an arrogant bully and the young, without reacting outwardly, festers inside and finds ways to rebel.

One piece of advice you may have never considered is to secretly record your wife and get audio and video evidence of her abusive words.

You raise your voice, they raise their voice, you raise it louder etc etc.

Dorothy Walsh Ripka licensed in OH, IL, MO, KY and TX only.