why does mom hate me sorted by

relevance

last year to be precise.

.

One day while handling her finances I ran across an insurance policy where she was paying the premium which I figured was way to much for a senior citizen to be paying.

i had fight off for 30 yrs.

And this week she went behind my back and hijacked a management position that I have been working for for 2 years when she hasn't worked there for over 2 years, and from conversations with other family members that she has said, the only reason she had me was to get away from her mother, and she treats my younger brother as if he can do no wrong, but I was the one taking care of her, and the only time she wants to spend time with her grandchildren is if I give her something in return.

She could not speak or move, but gave more affection than in sixty years.

So, give her the benefit of the doubt and try to recognize that she is so busy because she loves you.

She was abusive to both my brothers and I but as the years have went on, she now has a great relationship with my brothers.

I'm really grateful for her time to listen to what's on my mind and really making me comfortable to share so much with her.

i tried many solutions but nothing helped.